Them really wanting to know about your childhood and traumas is a major red flag
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What fleas would you say you caught?
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What are your hot takes part 2?
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Expecting your partner to be a mind reader is super unfair
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Do BPDs and Cluster B's seem to have a weird, distorted view on sex?
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What are your BPD hot takes?
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Did their family or anyone close to them warn you about them?
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What was your pwBPD's job?
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Did anyone else develop anger issues from your ex?
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Welcome to gaslighting 101 aka the infamous BPD classic, the birthday discard

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Apologies without changed behavior IS manipulation
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In a BPD relationship, you're basically being punished for being a human being
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Does this sound familiar?

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Their childhood trauma is no abuse for their excuse
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How did you stop internalizing the behavior and blaming yourself?
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When did you notice things became a bit much?
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How would you explain the aftermath of leaving a BPD relationship?
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I'm very disappointed in all of you
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Remember, being highly educated or working a great job doesn't mean they're mature
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The emotionally stunted child analogy is a perfect analogy really
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Heal before dating
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Was your bpd ex super close with their family?
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Is rumination a normal part of recovery from a BPD relationship?
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How clingy as your BPD ex?
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How did yours love bomb you?
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